The Urban Monk podcast with Dr. Pedram Shojai Pain as a Teacher: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You
🎙️ Most people respond to pain with one goal: make it stop. But Dr. Pedram Shojai reveals that pain isn't a mistake—it's a message your body is desperately trying to send you. Drawing from decades of treating patients and studying traditional medicine, he teaches you how to separate pain (the raw sensation) from suffering (the story you tell yourself), and decode the specific signals different pain locations are sending about what's breaking down in your system. Through a guided practice using witness consciousness, you'll learn to read your body's language with precision, track patterns like a detective, and finally understand what your pain is actually trying to tell you.
🎯 What You'll Learn:
- The crucial difference between pain (raw sensation, the data) and suffering (psychological reaction—fear, story, catastrophizing)
- The Six Types of Pain requiring different responses: acute warning, inflammatory healing, chronic pattern-related, referred (problem elsewhere), neuropathic (nerve damage), and emotional (stored trauma)
- The Body's Pain Map decoded: frontal headaches (digestive stress, blood sugar), neck pain patterns (thyroid vs. posture), shoulder blade pain (heart, breathing, emotional holding), low back (hip dysfunction, kidney/adrenal stress)
- The Five-Step Detective Approach: locate precisely with anatomical landmarks, describe quality (sharp, dull, burning, aching), track patterns and intensity, connect to other systems, investigate emotional context
🔑 Key Insights:
"Pain is a message, not a mistake. Where pain shows up, how it feels, when it appears—all specific signals. We never learned to read that language."
"Responding to all pain the same way is like turning off the fire alarm. Pain has multiple functions requiring different responses."
"You are not the sensation, you are the awareness observing it. Precision creates objectivity and reveals what your body is trying to tell you."
💡 Action Steps:
- Practice the 3-minute morning body scan before getting out of bed: locate, describe quality, notice patterns
- Use the pause-and-adjust practice during the day: three breaths, activate witness consciousness, adjust behavior based on the message (example: back pain while standing—engage core, adjust posture)
- Track patterns in a journal: when pain appears, what makes it worse/better, connections to digestion/sleep/energy, emotional context
🎧 Perfect for: Anyone dealing with chronic pain that doctors can't fully explain, people who've lost interoceptive precision and can only say "my back hurts" vaguely, those responding to all pain by trying to make it stop without investigating the message, or anyone ready to become literate in their own body's language.
📚 Mentioned Resources:
- New Course: "Lights On" - 52-week consciousness program (launching next week)
- Previous Weekly Call: Witness Consciousness practice
- Analog Pain Scales for categorizing pain
🌐 Connect with Dr. Shojai:
- Website: theurbanmonk.com
- Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus
- Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting
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