97. What You Need to Know about Custody Arrangements (Expert Divorce Tips!)
Feb 9, 2024
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Andrea and Morgan discuss creating parenting schedules and ensuring the best interests of the children. Topics include 50/50 arrangements, right of first refusal, asking for more than 50% custody, custodial custody vs parenting time, best parenting time schedules for younger kids, and creative parenting time schedules. They also mention using Our Family Wizard for coparenting and share information about their private community.
Carefully consider the appropriateness of a 50-50 custody arrangement before making a decision.
Provide specific examples and a timeline to support your case against a 50-50 custody arrangement.
Prioritize the best interests of the children when negotiating a parenting plan and be open to alternative schedules and communication strategies.
Deep dives
Take a step back and breathe
If the other parent asks for a 50-50 custody schedule, take a deep breath and don't rush into making any immediate decisions.
Communicate reasons for not agreeing to 50-50
Present your attorney with specific examples and a timeline to support why a 50-50 custody arrangement may not be appropriate.
Ask for guidance and ask the right questions
Consult with your attorney to understand the options and process involved in negotiating a parenting plan. Seek clarity on the typical custody arrangements in your jurisdiction.
Keep the children's best interests in mind
Remember that the parenting plan is not about personal preferences, but about what is best for the children. Be flexible and open to finding a schedule that prioritizes their stability and well-being.
Be prepared for alternative solutions
Consider alternative schedules, such as step-up plans or schedules built around a right of first refusal. Discuss how to handle communication during parenting time and the importance of minimizing transitions for children's stability.
In this episode, Andrea and Morgan give advice on creating parenting schedules and what you need to keep in mind to ensure the best interests of the children are at the forefront.
We dive into some of the most common custody issues:
*50/50 arrangment
*right of first refusal
*asking for more than 50% custody
*difference between custodial custody and parenting time
*best parenting time schedules for younger kids
*more creative parenting time schedules
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