Dear SOTM Community: You’re Not Behind (Even If It Feels Like You Are)
Sep 21, 2025
Feeling behind in life? You're not alone. This episode offers a refreshing perspective on success, emphasizing that it doesn't always mean climbing the ladder. Instead, it advocates for small, meaningful rituals over major milestones. The conversation dives into why using savings can be a strategic move and reveals the power of redefining personal goals. With a pep talk from the host, listeners are encouraged to slow down and embrace their unique paths to success.
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Timelines Are Fake
There is no rule that you must have your finances or life figured out by a certain age.
Victoria Devine reframes
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Regretting Lost Carefree Moments
Victoria reflects on being overly focused on saving in her 20s and missing carefree moments.
She now values small, spontaneous pleasures that felt fleeting then.
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Redefining Success
Success can look like peace, small rituals, and knowing what makes you happy.
Victoria values quiet moments like drinking coffee before the house wakes up as sacred.
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Surprise! No Money Diary today... V has hijacked your Monday feed for something different. Think of this one as a little love note from her to you (with a side of tough-love pep talk). Because if you’ve ever scrolled past someone’s new house, new ring, new six-figure job and thought “cool, I’m officially behind on life”… this episode is basically your antidote. Victoria is here to rip up the money timeline, call BS on hustle culture, and admit that success might look more like coffee in the sun than climbing some imaginary ladder.
Inside this ep: 🔥 The truth about “falling behind” (spoiler: it’s fake news) 🔥 When using your savings is actually a power move 🔥 The tiny rituals that matter more than the milestones 🔥 A pep talk from V that proves you’re doing better than you think
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