The Dildorks Buzzkill
Feb 13, 2024
In this engaging discussion, MB Bischoff, a technology and culture writer, joins spouse Kate Sloan to dive into the intriguing concept of a vibrator detox. They explore why Kate decided to pause her use of vibrators and the surprising effects this had on her sensitivity and orgasm quality. The pair wrestle with cultural anxieties surrounding sex toys while advocating for their positive aspects. They also share insights into manual stimulation techniques and reflect on how this experience redefines their relationship with pleasure and intimacy.
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Habituation Is Real But Reversible
- Kate Sloan found vibrator habituation is debated and retraining usually works over time.
- The brain adapts, so shifting stimulation methods can change orgasm pathways with practice.
Longtime Reviewer Took A Planned Break
- Kate started using vibrators at 16 and has used them frequently for 15 years while reviewing them professionally.
- She allowed work exceptions for the detox but didn’t need any during the 12+ days off.
Sensitivity Plateaus Quickly
- Abstaining didn't markedly change Kate's baseline clitoral sensitivity beyond a few days.
- Sensitivity rose quickly then plateaued, not continuously increasing during the detox.
