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 A Changed Mind | Mindset That Matters 181 This Ancient Indian Secret Will Recode Your Reality to Make You Unstoppable
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 Oct 9, 2025  Explore how all suffering originates from our own thinking and resistance to the present moment. The host shares insights from a transformative journey in India, emphasizing that acceptance of reality can lead to profound life changes. By acknowledging what isâno matter how uncomfortableâwe can shift our focus and create space for solutions. Discover the power of non-resistance and how it can relax your mind, helping you align your life with your desires. This enlightening discussion inspires a fresh perspective on handling life's challenges. 
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Breakthrough In An Indian Ashram
- David Bayer describes traveling to an ashram in India after years of personal growth work and encountering a monk's teaching that shifted his perspective.
- The monk told him, "All suffering is a result of your own thinking," and the emphasis on "all" reframed his responsibility for emotions.
Suffering Is Meaning, Not Events
- Suffering isn't caused by external events but by the meanings and beliefs we assign to them.
- David Bayer says the thought about an event, not the event itself, produces emotional pain.
Resistance To The Present Is The Problem
- All suffering is resistance to the present moment and denial of what is happening now.
- Bayer connects emotional pain to wanting reality to be different than it is in the present.



