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How To End The War With Your Body | Sonya Renee Taylor

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Dec 23, 2024

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Sonya Renee Taylor

In this insightful dialogue, Sonya Renee Taylor, author and founder of The Body is Not An Apology, discusses the concept of 'radical self-love' as a transformative approach to self-acceptance. She shares her journey as a Black woman navigating societal beauty standards, emphasizing the destructive nature of self-loathing. The conversation explores practical tools for cultivating self-love, the importance of community in personal growth, and reimagining our relationship with our bodies as supportive allies. Taylor advocates for embracing our inherent worth despite societal pressures.

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Radical Self-Love Defined

Radical self-love is our inherent worthiness and divinity.
It's our natural state, like a human operating system before external influences.

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ANECDOTE

Toddler Self-Love

Sonya Renee Taylor points out that toddlers exemplify inherent self-love.
They haven't yet internalized societal pressures and judgments about their bodies.

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ADVICE

Peeling Back the Onion

Identify the thoughts and stories causing disconnection from inherent self-love.
Recognize and challenge these thoughts as external influences, not your true voice.

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“Radical self-love” — what it is and how to do it.

It is incredibly common for many of us humans, whatever our gender, to be at war with our bodies -- trying to live up to the people we see in the movies, on social media, or even the versions of ourselves in old pictures. This never-enough-ness can lead to an ambient level of self-loathing that can be incredibly destructive. That's where "radical self-love" comes in.

Our guest today is Sonya Renee Taylor. She is the author of three books, including The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love. She is the Founder and Radical Executive Officer of The Body is Not An Apology. She has come to this work as a result of her own personal pain, as a Black woman inhabiting a body that she says does not conform to societal norms.

In this conversation, we talk about defining radical self-love (and why she believes it's our natural state), tools for cultivating radical self-love, and the connection between being OK with yourself and the larger society.

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