Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Now That I Have A Girlfriend, I Never Want To Leave My Wife
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Jan 15, 2024 
In this captivating discussion, Matthew Castrol, a newfound career man, and Sandra Reese, a dedicated wife and mother, share their transformative journey through an unconventional love triangle. They explore how Matthew's revitalization has invigorated their marriage, yet complicated their dynamics with the introduction of a third partner. The conversation navigates themes of jealousy, emotional fulfillment, and reshaping identities in relationships. They seek guidance on sustaining their evolving partnership while reflecting on personal histories and the impact of love and loss.
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The Initial Imbalance
- The husband was a stay-at-home dad for years, while his wife was the primary breadwinner.
- He felt like a failure and unseen by his wife, leading to a stagnant relationship.
Caretaking and Intimacy
- Esther Perel notes that caretaking in a relationship can block sexual intimacy.
- When the husband found a job, both partners experienced an erotic invigoration.
Wife's Awakening
- The wife's perspective shifted after a leadership training where she met an inspiring female manager.
- This led her to explore her authenticity and sexuality, creating a desire for change.