Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - My Partner's Privilege
Nov 11, 2021
A thought-provoking phone call reveals the impact of contrasting upbringings on relationships. A woman grapples with resentment towards her partner's privilege while navigating their shared love. The conversation dives into how differing financial backgrounds can create tension, yet also open pathways to empathy and understanding. By exploring personal histories, the discussion highlights the importance of gratitude and communication in forging connections. Ultimately, it emphasizes turning challenges into newfound strengths within partnerships.
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Resentment and Privilege
- The caller's resentment stems from recognizing privilege discrepancies.
- This awareness arose from comparing her upbringing with her boyfriend's and others'.
Expressing Resentment
- Esther Perel encourages the caller to express her resentment directly.
- She suggests identifying how the resentment manifests and communicates itself.
Financial Triggers
- The caller's resentment was triggered by financial comparisons.
- This includes her boyfriend's higher income, family support with taxes, and their differing financial futures.