Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais The Narcissist Expert: How To Spot Them, Survive Them & Why They're Everywhere - Dr. Ramani
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Jul 30, 2025 
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and leading expert on narcissism, discusses the intricate dynamics of this complex personality trait. She explains how narcissism exists on a spectrum, affecting high performers and relationships. The conversation covers recognizing gaslighting, understanding the interplay of empathy and narcissism, and navigating toxic dynamics. Dr. Ramani offers a five-step framework for managing these relationships and highlights the critical awareness needed to maintain personal well-being. Her insights are a guide for anyone dealing with challenging personalities.
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Narcissism Sparks Career Focus
- Dr. Ramani discovered narcissistic behaviors negatively impacting healthcare staff through difficult patients.
- This sparked her research and clinical focus on narcissism and relationship dynamics.
Narcissist's Variable Empathy
- Narcissistic people have variable empathy that's often transactional and performative.
- They can appear empathic when their needs are met but lack genuine emotional connection.
Athletes' Trauma Response
- Elite athletes often develop dissociative trauma responses to manage intense pressure.
- This coping helps performance but complicates identity development and emotional awareness.
