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The Art of Manliness

Familiarity Breeds Contempt (And Other Underappreciated Consequences of Digital Communication)

Jan 28, 2025
Nicholas Carr, author of *Superbloom*, dives into the often-overlooked impact of digital communication on our connections and self-perception. He argues that the belief that more communication is better has faltered, leading to overwhelming interactions and superficial relationships. The conversation touches on how the evolution from thoughtful letters to rushed emails has diminished intimacy. Carr also highlights the unsettling nature of presenting multiple selves online and advocates for prioritizing meaningful exchanges over mere convenience in our digital age.
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  • Digital communication has diminished intimacy, as fast-paced messages replace the thoughtful exchanges once inherent in traditional letter writing.
  • The perception that increased sharing on social media fosters connection is flawed, as familiarity often leads to alienation and contempt.

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The Impact of Digital Communication on Self-Perception

Digital communication tools have significantly altered how individuals perceive themselves and connect with others. Nicholas Carr emphasizes that the prevalent belief that more communication automatically enhances relationships is misguided. As communication has accelerated and become more superficial, individuals often experience diminished engagement and introspection. This relentless pace, driven by digital tools, overwhelms human capacities for processing information and nurturing meaningful connections.

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