Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 978
Jul 29, 2025
A man discovers an Airbnb guest's vibrator and wonders how to handle the awkward situation. A listener grapples with sharing past advice after a year-long relationship that defied previous counsel. Dan discusses with author Melissa Febos about a year without sex and the ways sexuality shapes identity. A trans man seeks advice on balancing his desires in a relationship. The show tackles open relationships, emotional compatibility, and the challenges of expressing kink while navigating societal norms.
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Airbnb Host Finds Left Vibrator
- A queer man who rents out his Airbnb found a vibrator left behind by guests.
- He wonders whether to message the guests to return it or discreetly dispose of it without embarrassment.
How to Return Left Sex Toy
- Reach out briefly and vaguely to guests about the left item without specifics.
- Offer to ship it back or discard it based on their response to avoid embarrassment.
Should She Share Breakup Advice?
- A woman called after a year wondering if she should tell her boyfriend about prior advice to break up.
- Dan advised her not to tell to avoid awkwardness and to keep the relationship stable.
