The Dr. John Delony Show Should I Adopt My Wife’s Son?
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Jun 19, 2024 This podcast discusses a man considering adopting his wife's son, a woman struggling with work-life balance, and a wife worried about starting a family on her husband's income. It also touches on relationship patterns, vulnerability, household chores, financial decisions, and transitioning into new family roles.
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James' Adoption Hesitation Story
- James shares his struggle with adopting his wife's oldest son due to marriage challenges and childhood baggage.
- He discusses how the red pill movement influenced his views, creating tension in their marriage.
Repeating Father's Abandonment Pattern
- John explains James is repeating his father's abandonment pattern despite wanting to be different.
- The red pill ideology comforts but damages young men, marriages, and children when used as a shield against emotional pain.
Stay Present in Conflict
- When your partner gets loud, stay present and calm instead of withdrawing or reacting.
- Use physical reassurance and affirm commitment to prevent escalation and build peace in chaos.