Deeper Dating Podcast
Attracted to People Who Aren't Good For You? Here's How to Change That [EP184]
May 17, 2024
Explore how to transform attraction patterns towards healthier relationships by understanding the difference between attractions of deprivation and inspiration. Learn to navigate changes in attraction patterns for deeper connections, address relationship needs, and embrace self-reflection for personal growth and fulfillment.
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Quick takeaways
- Recognizing patterns of attraction can lead to choosing partners who make us feel safe and seen.
- Shifting attraction towards individuals embodying goodness and stability can transform romantic circuitry for healthier relationships.
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Recognizing Attractions of Deprivation and Inspiration
Understanding the concept that our attractions can change as we change in certain ways is crucial in transforming our future in love. By recognizing our patterns of negative qualities and positive attributes that attract us to others, we can shift towards choosing partners who make our souls feel safe and seen. This decision not only leads to reorganizing around dignity and self-love but also initiates a gradual change in our romantic and erotic circuitry to prioritize goodness, stability, generosity, and kindness in relationships.
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