
Deeper Dating Podcast
Finding love isn’t about gimmicks or games. It’s about something far more profound than we’ve ever been taught. In this podcast by renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author Ken Page, you’ll learn the most effective, research-backed tools for transforming the way you date -- and finding authentic love.
Latest episodes

Jun 13, 2025 • 27min
Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 3 [212]
Can a broken road really lead you home to love? Ken Page shares the raw and profound story of how he finally found real, lasting love—by embracing his deepest fears, honoring his longing, and listening to the gentle whispers of spirit. From navigating intimacy during the AIDS crisis to forming a heartfelt support group of “chronically single shrinks,” Ken weaves a touching narrative of heartbreak, healing, and joy. His journey leads to adopting a child from Cambodia, launching his Deeper Dating movement, and marrying the love of his life just before his father’s passing. This is a story about trust, transformation, and the sacred, messy path to authentic love. Listen For: 0:43 Embracing Neurosis: The Gifts Hidden in Shame 8:18 The “Wave” of Repulsion and How It Sabotages Love 11:30 The Secret to Overcoming the “Ick” 14:41 Realizing He Wanted to Become a Father 20:27 Creating the Deeper Dating Movement 23:39 A Holocaust Survivor's Blessing 24:34 Saying Yes Before Goodbye: A Hospice Wedding 25:43 Trusting the Broken Road SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON APPLE PODCASTS Leave a positive rating for this podcast with one click CONNECT WITH KEN: Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | X

May 30, 2025 • 28min
Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 2 [211]
What happens when the search for love pulls you away from your soul—and how do you find your way back? Ken Page shares the deeply personal next chapter of his emotional, spiritual, sexual, and romantic journey in the second part of this series. From navigating New York’s vibrant and chaotic gay underground of the 1980s to an unexpected spiritual reawakening in the Wind River Mountains of Wyoming, Ken opens up about his struggles with love, addiction, loss, and the journey toward self-acceptance. Through heartbreaking stories and soul-shifting insights, he reveals how he began to integrate his sexuality with his spirituality and laid the foundation for his life’s work. Listen For: 6:32 Discovering the gay cultural renaissance in NYC 10:12 Fitting in with the beautiful and unattainable 13:28 Launching a therapeutic practice and gay men’s groups 16:43 A dream that revealed the truth about love 18:02 Finding God again in the Snow Peak mountains 21:11 Michael’s AIDS diagnosis and the start of a legacy 24:18 Re-entering spiritual life with caution and care SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON APPLE PODCASTS Leave a positive rating for this podcast with one click CONNECT WITH KEN: Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | X

May 16, 2025 • 30min
Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 1 [210]
What happens when spiritual devotion and gay identity collide in the search for love? In this raw, never-before-shared episode of The Deeper Dating Podcast, Ken takes you on an intensely personal journey through his early spiritual awakening, sexual discovery, and search for authentic connection. From mystical meditations and cult-like spiritual circles to heartbreak, celibacy, sexual compulsion, and finally integration, Ken explores the winding path that led him from loneliness and longing to a deeper understanding of self, love, and the divine. Vulnerable, courageous, and powerfully human. Listen For: 5:28 Losing his friend group and finding solitude 6:42 A radiant stranger in the vegetable aisle 9:45 Meeting Paramahansa Yogananda through a book and a photo 11:53 Telling Bruce “I love you” and being fully received 25:34 Losing spirituality and reclaiming his sexual self 27:53 The tension between sexuality, spirituality, and identity SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON APPLE PODCASTS Leave a positive rating for this podcast with one click CONNECT WITH KEN: Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | X

May 2, 2025 • 23min
REPLAY - How Dating Can Become a Spiritual Path [EP 209]
This is an episode first published in March 2024. It’s one of our most popular. How do you turn your dating life into a true spiritual path that heals your heart, connects you to the deepest parts of your being, allows you to have experiences that are truly transcendent, and allows you to find real healthy love dramatically more quickly? This episode will teach you how. Listen For: 02:16 – What “Spiritual” Really Means in the Context of Love 05:48 – The Power of “Coming Out” with Your Authentic Self 10:06 – Why We Unconsciously Sabotage Love 13:35 – The Spiritual Roots of Defensive Dating Behaviors 17:55 – The Shame Around Tenderness and Big Love 19:18 – Soft Confidence vs. Rigid Perfectionism SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON APPLE PODCASTS Leave a positive rating for this podcast with one click CONNECT WITH KEN: Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | X

Apr 18, 2025 • 50min
The Key To Truly Intimate Sex: An Interview With Tarah and EJ Kerwin [EP208]
In this episode of the Deeper Dating Podcast, Tarah and EJ Kerwin of Relationship Renovation share their unique model for fostering authentic sexual expression that heals and strengthens relationships. Discover how to navigate the challenges of communicating about intimacy, from early dating to long-term partnerships, and create a connection that’s both liberating and deeply fulfilling. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/deeper.dating TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KenPageLCSW YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/DeeperDating

Apr 4, 2025 • 21min
What Does It Mean To Date Like You Mean It? [EP207]
What does it mean to date like you really mean it? And what are the 4 things you can do to to dramatically speed your path to healthy lasting love? SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com

Mar 21, 2025 • 25min
How to Escape The Empath's Trap: Making Yourself Smaller in the Service of Love [EP206]
Do you make yourself smaller, ask for less, reveal less, to protect your relationship? This is the Empath's Trap, making ourselves smaller in the service of love. In this episode, you'll learn about the Empath's Trap and how you can get out of it to be your full self in your intimate relationships. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/deeper.dating TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KenPageLCSW YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/DeeperDating

Mar 7, 2025 • 22min
The Vulnerability Paradox: How Can I Be Real AND Protect My Heart in Love? [EP205]
You've decided to lead with authenticity in your search for love. But how do you protect yourself against all of the bad behavior and heartache that's out there? How can you be vulnerable, but not naive? How can you open up to romance but still protect your heart? Learn how in this episode. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/deeper.dating TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KenPageLCSW YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/DeeperDating

Feb 21, 2025 • 26min
What No One Tells Us About New Relationships [EP204]
You've started dating someone new, and you're pretty excited. You know, to look out for red flags, and to take in the green flags. But there are so many things no one teaches us about nurturing a promising new relationship. In this episode of the Deeper Dating Podcast, you'll learn keys to success that we never get taught. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/deeper.dating TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KenPageLCSW YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/DeeperDating

Feb 7, 2025 • 55min
The Best Insights From Dateable Podcast! [EP203]
Julie and Yue are intrepid, wise, and funny -- and they have explored the world of dating from the inside out, with insights from countless daters and top experts. Together, they are two of the most wonderful dating experts I know. Celebrating the release of the new book, I was thrilled to tap them for their best advice for modern daters. SUBSCRIBE TO DEEPER DATING ON iTUNES/APPLE PODCASTS: https://apple.co/3LPSrXZ LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS EPISODE: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com ——————————— CONNECT WITH US! ——————————— FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/kenpagelcsw INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/deeper.dating TWITTER: https://twitter.com/KenPageLCSW YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/DeeperDating