
Leadership Unlocked: The Operating System Every Executive Leader Needs to Delegate Effectively & Foster Accountability So You Can Stop Managing Alone and Start Leading a Team Again Why Willpower Fails—Create Sustainable Success With the ACT Framework | Lani Jones - E45
Dusty sits down once again with Dr. Lani Jones—clinical psychologist and executive coach—for a practical, no-nonsense conversation about turning good intentions into systems that actually produce lasting change. Building on their prior discussion about vision and planning, Lani introduces a clinically informed framework that begins with acknowledging your design: understanding your humanness, neurological wiring, and behavioral patterns rather than relying on sheer willpower or grit. Together, they explore why most goals fail at the execution layer, how blind spots and perfectionism quietly sabotage momentum, and why leaders must design environments, cues, and accountability structures that make success the path of least resistance. Lani shares concrete examples—from dopamine-driven habit stacking to simplifying systems around one critical block of the day—to show how sustainable progress is built through consistency, not perfection. Throughout the conversation, she challenges listeners to abandon one-size-fits-all productivity models, embrace self-awareness without self-judgment, and continually refine systems as seasons of life change. The episode ultimately reframes success as a repeatable process—one rooted in clarity, grace, and intentional system design—where extraordinary outcomes emerge from disciplined attention to the ordinary.
Key Timestamps:
(01:12) – ACT Framework: Acknowledge Your Design
(05:00) – Real-Life Examples and Practical Applications
(10:14) – Identifying Blind Spots and Seeking Feedback
(16:02) – Creating Sustainable Systems for Success
(34:36) – 3 Questions for Actionable Advice
Key Topics Discussed:
Leadership Unlocked, Leadership Insights, Dusty Holcomb, Servant Leadership Principles, Self-Leadership Strategies, Growth Mindset in Leadership, Integrity and Leadership, Leadership Development Resources, Effective Leadership Habits, Empowering Leadership Techniques, Senior Executive Insights, Leadership Quotes and Reflections, Leadership Podcast, Executive Coaching, CEO Podcast, Business Leadership, Leadership Growth, Leadership Journey, Stories From Leaders, Leadership Tools, High-Performing Teams, Leadership Mindset, Decision Making, Personal Growth, Leadership Coaching, Organizational Leadership
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Website: https://drlanijones.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlanijones/
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Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear
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