Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - I Crossed a Line I Never Thought I Would Cross
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Aug 7, 2023 
In this introspective discussion, a woman shares her journey after crossing her own moral boundaries through an emotional affair. With insights from relationship expert Esther Perel, they delve into the pain of guilt and the struggle for self-forgiveness. The conversation explores the complexities of love, accountability, and the quest for redemption in relationships. The speakers reflect on personal growth and the importance of setting boundaries, encouraging listeners to embrace their past while moving toward a more fulfilling future.
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The Affair and Its Aftermath
- The caller had an affair during a 10-year relationship.
- Her ex is now with the person she had the affair with.
Self-Forgiveness
- The caller's inability to forgive herself is the main issue.
- Esther Perel suggests it's not just about the ex's forgiveness.
Transforming Shame
- Esther Perel suggests turning shame into guilt.
- She asks what forgiveness or responsibility would look like for the caller.