Enneagram expert Beth McCord discusses Type Three traits, core motivations, and alignment with the Gospel. She explores authenticity, relationship issues, conflict triggers, and growth opportunities for Type Threes. The podcast emphasizes self-discovery, Christ's love, and overcoming the need for external validation.
Type 3s seek admiration through achievements but desire to be loved and valued for who they are.
Trusting in Christ's accomplishments frees Type 3s to navigate goals authentically and find balance in relationships.
Deep dives
Core Motivations of Type 3
Type 3s fear being exposed or thought of as incompetent, inefficient, worthless, failing, or appearing unsuccessful. Their desire is to have high status, be respected, admired, seen as successful, and valuable to others. However, their core weakness is deceit as they present an embellished image to gain admiration through achievements, often shaping their persona to fit different groups. Type 3s long to hear that they are loved and valued for simply being themselves.
Alignment with the Gospel
Realizing that Christ has already accomplished everything needed for love and admiration frees Type 3s to rest and focus on healthy accomplishments. By trusting in Christ's perfect achievements, Type 3s can navigate their goals from a position of rest and collaboration, reflecting genuine authenticity rather than fabricated success. Acknowledging their core longing to be loved and valued for who they are, Type 3s can find balance and joy both in their work and personal lives.
Growth and Relationships for Type 3s
Type 3s can grow by learning patience, balancing work and relationships, prioritizing well-being, and embracing honesty and transparency. In relationships, affirming their genuine emotions, commitment to others' well-being, and reliance on Christ's accomplishments instead of their own achievements can empower Type 3s to be self-accepting, modest, and authentic. Being a motivator through genuine reflection of Christ's image, Type 3s can lead others to their best selves.