Explore the hidden dynamics of marriage that often go unaddressed. Discover how women can pursue personal happiness and the importance of self-reflection in relationships. Learn about the emotional struggles good men face and the need for mutual accountability in fostering connection. Understand the concept of internal versus external locus of control, empowering individuals to take charge of their emotional health. This fresh perspective challenges traditional approaches and offers transformative insights for lasting love.
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Marriage Reflects Internal State
Your marriage reflects your internal state, not external factors.
Shift to an internal locus of control to regain power.
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Men and Women Wired Differently
Men and women are wired differently; this affects their internal experiences.
Understanding these differences is key to a healthy marriage.
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Good Men Trapped in Problem-Solving
Good men, as problem-solvers, often get trapped in a cycle of trying to fix what they believe they're doing wrong in the relationship.
They unknowingly fall for the 'brainwashing' that they are the problem.
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Therapy and self-help marriage books have led us in a direction that doesn't deal with the fundamental issues of a relationship. In this episode, I share a fresh perspective about what's really going on in a marriage that you will never hear from a therapist.
Disclaimer:
The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse. Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
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