301: Embodied Receiving with Rosalyn Dischiavo

In this episode of Better Sex, host Jess Zimmerman engages in a deep conversation with Rosalyn Dischiavo, who runs the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment. They discuss Ros's journey into sexuality education, the five levels of intimacy, and the concept of embodied receiving. The conversation covers the importance of embodiment in building intimacy, the challenges posed by modern technology and societal norms, and the distinction between sexual and sensual experiences. Ros also explains her workshops, designed to help people connect deeper with their bodies and build meaningful, intimate relationships. This episode emphasizes the need for graduated risks, learning to feel and process emotions, and the power of in-person connections.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

00:55 Meet Ros Dischiavo: Expert in Sexuality Education

03:09 The Shift to Public Workshops

07:38 Understanding Intimacy Levels

13:47 The Concept of Embodied Receiving

20:14 The Misconception of Mindfulness

20:57 The Fascination of Embodied Presence

22:55 The Impact of Advertising on Relaxation

24:39 Defining Deep Practice

25:01 Practicing Embodied Receiving

30:34 The Importance of In-Person Workshops

34:59 Distinguishing Sexual from Erotic

38:49 About the Institute for Sex Education and Enlightenment

40:19 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

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Bio:

Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo is the Founder and Director of Institute for Sex Education and Enlightenment, a professional training program for clinicians, therapists and educators. She was President of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) from 2022-2024 and served as Professional Education Steering Committee Chair on the AASECT Board of Directors from 2018-2020. She is the author of “The Deep Yes: The Lost Art of True Receiving.” Roz is a professor, author, an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator (CSE) and Sex Educator Supervisor (CSES), She has a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Doctor of Education in Human Sexuality. She was also co-host of a women's interest radio show on TIC FM in Hartford, CT, and brings humor and insight into all of her education.

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