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The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer

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Sep 18, 2023

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Marisa Peer

In this insightful discussion, Marisa Peer, a world-renowned therapist and founder of Rapid Transformational Therapy, reveals the power of our beliefs and how they shape our lives and relationships. She advocates for 'lying to yourself' to transform your mindset and tackle issues like intimacy and sexual dysfunction. Marisa explores the detrimental effects of porn on relationships, the importance of open communication, and techniques to reignite passion in long-term partnerships. Discover how your thoughts influence sexual performance and redefine your sense of self-worth!

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ADVICE

Lie to Yourself

Lie to yourself to build confidence and achieve goals.
Repeat positive affirmations, even if they feel untrue initially, to influence your subconscious mind.

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INSIGHT

Thoughts as Blueprints

Thoughts become blueprints that your mind and body work to make real.
Repetition strengthens these blueprints, even if the initial thought isn't true.

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ANECDOTE

Lemon Visualization

Marisa Peer hypnotizes Steven Bartlett to vividly imagine biting into a lemon.
Despite no lemon, he salivates proving the mind's power to manifest physical reactions from mere thoughts.

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Challenging Beliefs and Self-Identity

01:32 • 12min

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The Power of Thought in Sexual Performance

13:33 • 2min

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Navigating Intimacy and Sexual Dysfunctions

15:34 • 18min

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Navigating Self-Sabotage in Love

33:13 • 11min

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Navigating Self-Worth in Dating

44:04 • 16min

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Sugar, Cravings, and Childhood Reflections

59:41 • 16min

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Understanding Messiness and the Science of Sleep

01:16:05 • 3min

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The Life-Changing Power of Self-Acceptance

01:18:44 • 2min

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Prioritizing Health: Wearable Tech and Curated Nutrition

01:20:21 • 3min

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Lie to yourself to have a better life!

In this new episode Steven sits down for a second time with world renowned therapist and founder of Rapid Transformational Therapy, Marisa Peer.

Starting in 1984, Marisa has worked as a hypnotherapist and psychotherapist for over 30 years. During this time she has worked with rock stars, CEOs, Olympic athletes, royalty, and Oscar-winning actors. To make her life changing techniques of hypnosis and hypnotherapy available to everyone, Marisa founded the award-winning Rapid Transformational Therapy. She is also the best selling author of six books helping readers with everything from weight loss to confidence.

In this conversation Marisa and Steven discuss topics, such as:

Why you should constantly choose and question your beliefs
Why you should lie to yourself
How your mind’s job is to make your thoughts real
The rules of how the mind works
Why you don’t need to change events but change the way you think about events
How you act according to the way you define yourself
How having or not having erections is based on what you think
The damage that porn is causing
How porn is impacting sex lives
Why people have affairs
The difference between intimacy and eroticism
The power of fantasy on relationships
Re-finding the thrill in a relationship
The most common sex problems in relationships
The importance of bringing a feeling of newness into relationships
When you can’t say something, your body will say it
Why there will never be a person that meets all your needs
Choosing your battles and arguments in a relationship
The need to be proactive when looking for love
Why you should make a list to find love
The importance of knowing you are worthy of love
Why you should put yourself around people you want to be with
How people can sense your level of self worth
Why you should find self worth internally rather than externally
How what you learn is what you live

You can purchase Marisa’s most recent book, ‘Tell Yourself a Better Lie’, here: https://amzn.to/40BxpVB

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FULL CLIP (Steve gets hypnotised): https://youtu.be/rjaGOD03vK8

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