The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer

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Sep 18, 2023

In this insightful discussion, Marisa Peer, a world-renowned therapist and founder of Rapid Transformational Therapy, reveals the power of our beliefs and how they shape our lives and relationships. She advocates for 'lying to yourself' to transform your mindset and tackle issues like intimacy and sexual dysfunction. Marisa explores the detrimental effects of porn on relationships, the importance of open communication, and techniques to reignite passion in long-term partnerships. Discover how your thoughts influence sexual performance and redefine your sense of self-worth!

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ADVICE

Lie to Yourself

Lie to yourself to build confidence and achieve goals.
Repeat positive affirmations, even if they feel untrue initially, to influence your subconscious mind.

INSIGHT

Thoughts as Blueprints

Thoughts become blueprints that your mind and body work to make real.
Repetition strengthens these blueprints, even if the initial thought isn't true.

ANECDOTE

Lemon Visualization

Marisa Peer hypnotizes Steven Bartlett to vividly imagine biting into a lemon.
Despite no lemon, he salivates proving the mind's power to manifest physical reactions from mere thoughts.

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