What Happens When A Coach Gives Advice (And Why You Shouldn’t)
May 12, 2023
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Coaching experts John and Noelle discuss the limitations of giving advice in coaching, emphasizing the importance of asking powerful questions. They explore the power of physical experiences in coaching sessions, such as tingles and chills. The distinction between feelings and intuition is explored, along with strategies for discerning between the two. The relationship between intuition and fear is examined, emphasizing the value of exploring patterns and using questions instead of advice.
Coaches should prioritize asking questions over giving advice to create space for solution finding.
Coaches should aim for an equitable partnership with clients, empowering them to make their own decisions rather than relying on the coach as an expert.
Deep dives
The Art and Science of Coaching
Coaches should focus on asking questions rather than giving advice. Giving advice shuts down exploration, while asking questions creates space for solution finding.
Power Dynamics in Coaching
Coaches should be aware of power dynamics and aim for an equitable partnership with clients. Clients should be empowered to make their own decisions and solutions, rather than relying on the coach as an expert.
Sensory Data and Evaluating Relationships
Coaches should help clients explore environmental and relational data to gain a better understanding of their experiences. Questions can uncover biases, help evaluate relationships, and distinguish between facts and feelings.
After coaching for more than a decade, John and Noelle share their insights into what can happen when coaches give advice. Does it help or harm? And if advice-giving isn't empowering for the client, what can coaches do instead?
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Music in this episode is by Cody Martin and used under a creative commons license. The Everything Life Coaching Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Rithu Jagannath.
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