Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Gay Orgies (w/ Jay Jurden)

Aug 4, 2023
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ANECDOTE

Theater College Romance Turned Marriage

  • Jay met his husband in the University of Mississippi theater department and their relationship began while rehearsing lines together.
  • They moved in, endured a studio test in East Harlem with a dog, then had a long engagement before marrying in Queens.
INSIGHT

Intersecting Identities Shape Voice

  • Jay describes double code-switching as black, queer, and southern identities intertwining and shaping presentation.
  • He says these combined facets make his voice more powerful and honest than any single identity alone.
ANECDOTE

Bed Bug Nightmares in East Harlem

  • Jay and Nicole both had severe bed bug infestations while living in East Harlem and used extreme remedies.
  • They describe buying powders, calling exterminators, and enduring months of fear and cleaning.
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