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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

I Love You One Day, I Hate You The Next

Mar 4, 2024
A young couple with a child struggles to connect as they fight constantly. They face trust issues, differing opinions on hiring a babysitter, and navigate menopause together. The podcast explores family dynamics, gender roles, emotional communication, and the importance of staying connected amidst disagreements.
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Quick takeaways

  • Conflicts in couples often stem from underlying childhood experiences, leading to emotional eruptions.
  • Effective communication strategies like vulnerability and active listening can foster understanding and connection in relationships.

Deep dives

Understanding Conflict Dynamics

Conflicts in couples often revolve around three distinct patterns: direct fighting, silent withdrawal, and one partner escalating with the other minimizing. These conflict dynamics lead to eruptions fueled by underlying issues rooted in past childhood experiences. Miscommunication and differing approaches to resolving disagreements contribute to emotional distance, volatility, and lack of trust.

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