Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel I Love You One Day, I Hate You The Next
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Mar 4, 2024 
A young couple grapples with the emotional turmoil of a high-conflict marriage. The husband seeks effective communication while the wife confronts feelings of instability. They discuss how past experiences shape their current struggles and highlight the importance of addressing conflicts directly. Through candid reflections, they explore the balance of tenderness and aggression, revealing how small disagreements can escalate. With a focus on empathy and connection, they aim to rediscover the love that initially brought them together.
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Babysitter Argument
- The couple argues about hiring two babysitters.
- The wife finds the husband's suggestion to hire only one reckless, leading to an escalation.
Husband's Feelings of Dismissal
- The husband feels unheard and dismissed in arguments.
- The wife's perceived lack of patience triggers his feelings of inadequacy.
Wife's Dismissive Language
- The wife admits to using dismissive language like "ridiculous."
- She acknowledges that this shuts down productive conversation.