Ep. 195 – Approaching Suffering without Reactivity
Mar 20, 2024
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Joseph Goldstein delves into staying open to global challenges, using compassion to approach suffering without reactivity. He explores equanimity, reframing difficult experiences, and accepting feelings to liberate ourselves through impermanence. The podcast emphasizes the interconnectedness of human experiences and the significance of responding to suffering with empathy and compassion.
Equanimity helps approach suffering without reactivity, fostering wise discernment and skillful responsiveness.
Compassion arises from willingness to confront suffering, leading to actions of help and alleviation.
Exploring equanimity and compassion prevents indifference or overwhelming sorrow, nurturing purpose and wisdom.
Deep dives
Understanding Equanimity and Compassion
Equanimity and compassion are qualities of mind essential for navigating challenges and finding purpose in life. Equanimity, the ability to stay open and non-reactive, allows us to see situations clearly and as a whole. It provides a mind space of impartiality that leads to wise discernment and skillful responsiveness. Compassion, arising from a willingness to come close to suffering, prompts us to ask, 'How can I help?' and 'What can I do to alleviate suffering?' These qualities are interconnected and prevent us from sliding into indifference or overwhelming sorrow.
The Importance of Cultivating Equanimity
Cultivating equanimity involves reframing experiences and situations to prevent reactive responses. Equanimity allows us to hold the whole of a person or situation, fostering investigation and discernment. Maintaining a clear and open mind space through mindfulness helps prevent reactivity and enables skillful responses. By understanding the impermanence of experiences and expanding our time and space perspectives, we can develop a stable and non-reactive mind.
Compassion in Action
Compassion manifests through diverse actions, from small gestures of generosity to acts of tremendous courage and determination. Malala's story exemplifies compassion's transformative power in the face of adversity. Compassion prompts us to engage with suffering and ask, 'How can I help?' and 'What can I do to alleviate suffering?' By being responsive and empathetic, compassion becomes a verb, leading to uplifting and energizing responses.
Maintaining Humility and Practicing Diligence
Navigating challenges requires a deep exploration of equanimity and compassion, understanding their near enemies to avoid slipping into indifference or overwhelming sorrow. These qualities support each other and are crucial in fostering a sense of purpose and wisdom. Practicing humility and diligence in cultivating these qualities gradually leads to personal growth and a deeper connection to compassion and equanimity.
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Focusing on equanimity and compassion, Joseph Goldstein teaches about staying open and responsive to collective and individual suffering.
This talk from the Spirit Rock Meditation Center was originally published on Dharmaseed.
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This time on Insight Hour, Joseph Goldstein divulges :
How to stay open and responsive while experiencing both individual and global challenges
Compassion and equanimity as tools to work with difficulties
The definition of equanimity and seeing all things as a whole
Equanimity as the basis of wise discernment and skillful responsiveness
Re-framing difficult experiences as an opportunity to practice openness
An invitation to look within rather than blaming outside forces
Examining what emotions are underneath our reactions
Letting go of the illusion of being in control
Accepting our feelings instead of allowing them to limit us
Freeing ourselves through the awareness of impermanence
How compassion arises out of our willingness to come close to suffering
Sorrow as the near enemy of compassion
Having humility on our path to explore equanimity and compassion
“Equanimity gives us the foundation, the ability to approach the suffering without reactivity. And compassion, precisely arises out of the willingness to come close to suffering.” – Joseph Goldstein