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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

How to Connect with Your Upset Child, Even When There's More Than One

Aug 29, 2023
The podcast discusses the challenges of connecting with multiple children when they both need attention. It offers insights on understanding and supporting children's upset behaviors and emphasizes the importance of attending to each child's individual needs. The chapter also explores the challenges parents face when connecting with upset children and reframing the idea of making it work.
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Quick takeaways

  • True connection with upset children involves holding space and supporting their feelings, not just giving them what they want in the moment.
  • Connecting with multiple children requires prioritizing and being present with each child individually, teaching them their worth and building trust.

Deep dives

Connecting with Children's Upset Feelings

When children are upset and behaving erratically, connecting with them does not mean giving them what they seem to want in the moment. Instead, true connection involves holding space and supporting their feelings to be expressed. It is about seeing and accepting their emotions, while continuing to do what needs to be done as the adult. Connection is primarily emotional support and acceptance, not trying to offer solutions or make the feeling stop.

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