Pillow Talks EPISODE 198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know)
Mar 6, 2025
Initiating sex should be exciting, yet many couples struggle with it. Common issues include one partner always taking the lead and awkward, lazy attempts to connect. The need for proper timing and clear communication is emphasized to enhance intimacy. The podcast discusses overcoming societal expectations and personal challenges, including menopause. It offers creative strategies to make initiation more inviting and enjoyable, while emphasizing mutual respect and understanding each other's boundaries in relationships.
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Initiation's Importance
- Sexual initiation is more than a quick question; it shapes relationship intimacy and frequency of sex.
- Often, media portrays unrealistic initiation, leaving couples unprepared for complexities.
Beach Bonfire Initiation
- Vanessa Marin recounts initiating sex with Xander at a beach bonfire with friends while drunk.
- Xander, less drunk, found it inappropriate due to the public setting and Vanessa's insistence.
Discuss Appropriate Times
- Discuss what feels appropriate for initiation to avoid misunderstandings.
- Openly communicate how different situations make you feel regarding initiation.