The Vulnerability of Parenthood

Having children significantly increases one's vulnerability, as encapsulated in Joan Didion's observation that becoming a parent inevitably makes someone a 'hostage to fortune.' The emotional investment in a child's well-being means that parental happiness is closely tied to the happiness of their children. This heightened sense of worry arises from the understanding that no amount of wealth or safety can shield them from potential harm or sorrow. However, while parenting exposes individuals to the pain of suffering, it also opens the door to abundant joy and fulfillment, as reflected in Ben Franklin's sentiment about the dual nature of family life.