To Speak or Not to Speak? That is the Question

Have you ever started down a conversational pathway and wish you could turn around and exit stage right? Despite our good intentions, we can find ourselves knee-deep in a complex and challenging situation. Our ‘Speak-First, Think-Later’ culture amplifies the potential risk.

Join me in this month’s solo episode as I unveil a simple yet powerful three-step process, borrowed from an unlikely source—the comedian Craig Ferguson. We probe the depths of when to speak, what to share, and who should deliver the message, turning your communication into a deliberate and effective tool. Discover how asking ourselves these critical questions before speaking can steer us away from potential conversational pitfalls and guide us toward more meaningful interactions.

What You’ll Learn:

• A 3-step reflection process to guide if and how you contribute to crucial conversations

• The importance of asking why you are sharing this message

• The role of timing in effective communication

• Being strategic about the messenger

Podcast Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:55) The Importance of Effective Communication

(02:22) Introducing Craig Ferguson's Three-Step Process

(03:25) Question 1: Does This Need to Be Said?

(05:52) Question 2: Does This Need to Be Said by Me?

(09:02) Question 3: Does This Need to Be Said by Me Now?

(10:30) Applying the Three-Step Process in Real Life

(14:16) Conclusion

Key Topics Discussed:

Meaningful Connection, Communication, Open-ended Questions, Self-reflection, Managing Relationships, Navigating Conflict, Emotional Intelligence, Craig Ferguson, Timing, Effective Communication, Actionable Tips, Personal Development

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