Erotic Awakening EA067 - The Dominants Handbook
Jun 8, 2010
Gigi, an intersex author, pro-dom trainer, and radio show host, brings a wealth of knowledge to the discussion on BDSM and dominance. They explore the essential elements of a 'Dominance Handbook' and the importance of psychological safety. The conversation touches on the significance of mentorship in BDSM, the need for compassion within dominant-submissive dynamics, and how emotional safety plays a crucial role. Gigi's insights encourage deeper understanding and personal growth in the community.
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Choose Thoughtful Mentors
- Seek mentors who have relatable life experiences and maintain order in themselves and their environment.
- Choose mentors who are joyful, open-minded, and willing to challenge you constructively.
Bond Deeply with Your Toys
- Become intimately familiar with your tools as a dominant by bonding with select toys.
- Having go-to toys helps maintain control and confidence during scenes, especially when things feel off.
Dominance Has Multiple Meanings
- The term 'dominant' has multiple meanings including topping in scenes and power exchange in relationships.
- Clear definitions are essential since people’s perceptions of dominance vary widely.
