Navigating BDSM: Knowledge, Safety, and Emotional Dynamics

This week, we discuss a dominants handbook - what Dan would put in his "How to Dom" guide as well as we hear what Sarah Sloane would put in her Dom handbook (you might be surprised). We also hear from intersex author Gigi, a pro dom trainer, radio show host and author of The Dominants Handbook! Also, a listener responds to a question from last week 'are you born or made kinky?'; we update the calendar and prove we were lying about our travel slowing down; and our question of the day is 'What do you look for in a mentor?' (be joyful...and call me on my bull)