The Dr. John Delony Show Should We Let Our 13-Year-Old Daughter Date?
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Jan 5, 2026 Jorge, a concerned dad from Birmingham, seeks advice on his wife's lenient view on their 13-year-old daughter's dating. John Delony emphasizes the importance of boundaries and preventing kids from becoming a proxy in marital conflicts. Meanwhile, Brooke seeks to break a generational cycle of codependency with her nearly 16-year-old son. John provides her practical steps to foster independence and improve their relationship. The conversation navigates parenting challenges while highlighting the significance of building adult support systems.
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No 13-Year-Old Dating 16-Year-Olds
- Do not allow a 13-year-old to date a 16-year-old; John Delony states this is unfair to both minors.
- Set clear household rules about dating and social activities to protect young teens and older teens alike.
Children Become Marriage Proxy Wars
- A child's relationship can become a proxy battlefield for unresolved marital issues.
- Protecting the child requires addressing the deeper marital disconnection first.
Parent Together, Not Compete
- Come together as parents and co-create household values instead of competing for the child’s loyalty.
- Make parenting decisions based on the child's needs, not on avoiding teen anger or preserving adult comfort.