The Big Drink Rethink Ep 58: Own Your Worth & Rewrite your Alcohol Story
Is a sense of unworthiness and shame keeping you stuck? In this powerful episode of The Big Drink Rethink, host Anna Donaghey sits down with Chris Janssen, a leading Performance and Mindset Coach with a Master’s in Counseling Psychology, to explore how shame and unworthiness can keep people trapped in addiction. Chris, who has been sober for 18 years and is the bestselling author of "Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want," shares her personal journey and professional insights on breaking free from shame-based thinking.
Together, they discuss how community support, self-compassion, and rewriting one's personal narrative can be transformative tools in recovery, regardless of the path chosen. This conversation offers hope and practical strategies for anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol or struggling to believe they deserve a better life.
Here are the highlights:
00:00 Introduction
06:08 Shame inhibits recovery from addiction by fostering unworthiness.
10:04 Shame is about self-worth, while guilt focuses on behavior change.
14:58 Persevere with positive self-talk to replace negative beliefs.
19:18 The book addresses overcoming perfectionism, shame, pride, and the struggle of restarting sobriety.
21:03 Community alleviates shame through empathy and support
23:26 Struggling drinkers may feel undeserving of better.
27:50 Start recovery from where you are.
32:29 Shared experiences in supportive communities alleviate self-judgment and shame, fostering mutual understanding and growth.
34:19 The theme is separating addiction from identity to view oneself as worthy and not defined by it.
47:05 Self-help is important, but service and community keep us humble by countering negative ego-driven thinking.
Anna’s new coaching programme ‘Unstuck!’ helps break the cycle of alcohol and all the shame that goes with it. For more information and to find out how to join, please follow this link: The Unstuck! programme
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About the host Anna:
Anna is a certified Alcohol Mindset Coach, trained by Annie Grace of This Naked Mind. Drawing on her own journey out of alcohol addiction, she now helps others explore and control their drinking. With a career spanning 25 years as a Strategist in the Advertising industry, she combines her own lived experiences, with great insight into what makes us tick and what influences us to behave the way we do.
Connect with Anna:
Website: thebeliefscoach.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annadonaghey
Instagram: instagram.com/bigdrinkrethink
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About Chris Janssen:
Chris Janssen, MA, BCC, is a leading results coach in performance and mindset and a bestselling, award winning author. She has worked with hundreds of sought-after athletes, creatives, soldiers, entrepreneurs, and small businesses internationally, helping them to close the gap between where they are and where they want to be. In addition to her academic achievements, Chris trained with and worked on Tony Robbins’ team of results coaches at the #1 personal development and peak performance strategy company in the world.
As a board-certified coach with a master’s in counselling psychology and over 25 years of experience, Chris excels in helping high-achieving perfectionists navigate performance pressure, overcome self-sabotage and rewrite narratives. Through her successful and sustainable Living All In methods, clients learn to attach meaning to life events and circumstances beyond their control.
To purchase Chris’s book "Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want”:
Find out more: https://www.chrisjanssencoaching.com/
Connect with Chris:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chrisjanssencoaching/
https://www.instagram.com/chris3janssen
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chris3janssen
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