The Psychology of your 20s 223. Why are female friendships so hard?
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Aug 20, 2024 Female friendships can be both a source of joy and a minefield of challenges. The emotional intensity and high expectations often complicate these bonds. Societal pressures, competition for male attention, and the impact of online scrutiny contribute to rivalry and jealousy. Personal stories illustrate the emotional turmoil of friendship breakups, akin to romantic losses. As women grow older, the dynamics evolve, emphasizing the importance of quality connections, trust, and effective communication to nurture lasting friendships.
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Intensity and Vulnerability in Female Friendships
- Female friendships are intense and intimate, leading to high expectations and vulnerability.
- This intensity can cause devastation when friendships shift because the separation feels profound.
Conflict Resolution in Female Friendships
- Women are often conditioned to be conflict-averse, avoiding direct confrontation.
- This can lead to indirect communication and unresolved issues, magnifying negative emotions.
Ghosting and Miscommunication
- A listener's 13-year friendship ended abruptly after a series of unexplained avoidances and accusations.
- The listener decided to end the friendship due to the immature communication style.
