Nam Seng and Sok Mian, co-founders of Bridging Hearts, have spent over thirty years supporting families and marriages. They discuss the importance of a supportive community in navigating marriage, emphasizing that shared experiences can help prevent isolation. Practical skills and mentorship from experienced couples are highlighted as key to overcoming challenges, especially for newlyweds. The duo also shares insights on managing expectations and maintaining romance, reinforcing that a thriving marriage is a community effort.
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Community Builds Strong Marriages
It takes a community, not just a couple, to build a strong and satisfying marriage.
Community provides support during stresses and challenges in marriage.
insights INSIGHT
Marriage Is Not Just Private
Many couples believe marriage is private and hesitate to share struggles due to shame or fear of misunderstanding.
Viewing marriage as a communal journey helps normalize struggles and encourages seeking support.
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Practical Help in Emergencies
Sok Mian shared how a friend quickly helped fix an electrical issue for their daughter at home alone.
Having practical community support brings comfort beyond emotional reassurance.
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"Having a community to journey with us also helps us to moderate our expectations of our spouse and our expectations of what a marriage should be, so that we do not become too idealistic or too unrealistic.” - Nam Seng
Just as it takes a village to raise a child, it takes a community to build a strong and satisfying marriage. Tune in to this episode to hear Nam Seng and Sok Mian share the benefits of journeying together with others and not walking alone in your marriage.
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The early years of marriage are filled with unique challenges and opportunities for growth. With some practical skills and tools, you can be equipped to build a love that lasts.
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