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Love Life with Matthew Hussey
(Matt Monday): Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON'T CHASE, Do THIS!
Mar 18, 2024
10:26
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Exploring why we're attracted to emotionally unavailable people, the false perception of value in scarcity, the addictive nature of intense highs and lows in relationships, and the importance of breaking free for genuine love.
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- Emotionally unavailable partners may seem valuable due to their scarcity, leading to addictive relationship patterns.
- Recognizing unhealthy relationship patterns as addictions can help regulate emotions and foster stable, fulfilling love.
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Understanding the Attraction to Emotionally Unavailable People
Many individuals find themselves drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, experiencing intense highs and lows in these relationships. This attraction can stem from a misconception that scarce, difficult-to-obtain individuals are more valuable, akin to viewing diamonds as more precious than air. Additionally, a deeper reason for this attraction may lie in familiar patterns from past experiences, such as inconsistent parental love, leading to a cycle of seeking validation in unpredictable relationships.
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