Episode 467: Why Are People Into That?

When people hear about certain kinks, the reaction is often one of confusion or judgment. The question that comes up again and again is, “Why would anyone be into that?” Today, we’re exploring some lesser-known and often misunderstood kinks, not to sensationalize them, but to understand the psychology behind why different people are drawn to different things.

I am joined once again by Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationships psychotherapist, and sex educator. Gigi is an associate clinician at The Therapy Yard, where she specializes in work with gender, sexuality, and relationship diverse clients. She is also the author of two books, with her latest being Kink Curious.

Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include:

• What is age play, and why are some people drawn to it?
• What’s the psychological appeal of pet play?
• Where do sensory-based kinks like balloon play come from?
• How can we help people think about sexual diversity in a way that’s more curious than judgmental?

You can check out Gigi’s website to learn more about her work.

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