The Cabrera Lab Podcast #88: Think It Through: Parenting, Culture, and Mental Models
Oct 8, 2025
Explore how mental models shape both parenting and workplace dynamics. Discover the distinction between teen freedom and parental risk that can lead to misunderstandings. Learn to surface differing definitions for better communication. Delve into the concept of shared mental models in organizations and how conflicting cultures create confusion. The hosts emphasize using visuals to clarify ideas and adapting rules to fit complex situations. Gain practical tools to trace behavior back to these underlying models, fostering healthier interactions at home and work.
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Label Conflicting Mental Models
- Recognize when you and your teen are using different mental models for the same word.
- Surface and label those models so you can build a shared model that includes both views.
Build A Containing Mental Model
- A combined mental model (driving three) can contain both independence and risk perspectives.
- Frustration drops when both parts are visible on the table together.
Lead With Their Perspective
- Start difficult conversations by acknowledging the other's perspective first.
- Show the teen you see freedom before discussing risks so they feel heard and open up.