The speakers discuss the importance of self-acceptance and rejecting self-help trends. They explore the behaviors and mindsets of average people, including their risk aversion and passion aversion. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and accepting one's own desires and contentment. They delve into societal pressure, fear of regret, and the influence of Eastern philosophy. They highlight the significance of coaching programs to support individuals at all stages.
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Average individuals often struggle with risk aversion and passion aversion, which can hinder them from pursuing their true passions and taking risks.
Being content with an average life is not something to be frowned upon; it's important to embrace the concept of 'Dharma, Artha, Kama, Moksha' and find fulfillment in one's duty, financial security, pleasure, and seeking enlightenment.
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Embracing Risk and Passion Aversion for Average People
For average people, risk aversion and passion aversion are common characteristics that often hold them back from pursuing their true passions and taking risks. Many average individuals tend to make safe choices when it comes to their career and life decisions, which stems from conditioning and a fear of taking risks. They might have passions and interests but are self-critical and judgmental towards them, seeing them as silly or impractical. To address this, it is important to recognize and acknowledge these tendencies, and to start embracing and nurturing the passions that have been suppressed. This can be done by taking small steps towards exploring those interests, such as enrolling in singing lessons or trying out activities like skydiving. By quieting the critical inner voice and allowing room for embracing risk, average people can tap into their inner passions and lead more fulfilling lives.
Finding Contentment in Average
Society often pushes the idea that everyone should strive for exceptionalism and constant self-improvement. However, being content with an average life is not something to be frowned upon. Many average individuals feel pressured by external expectations to constantly chase more, achieve more, and grind harder. The truth is, it's perfectly fine to be content in the present moment without constantly seeking external validation or feeling the need to prove oneself. Instead of constantly worrying about future regrets or comparing oneself to societal standards, it's important to embrace the concept of 'Dharma, Artha, Kama, Moksha'. This Eastern philosophy suggests that being content in one's duty, having financial security, experiencing pleasure in life, and seeking enlightenment are the keys to living a fulfilling life. Accepting one's contentment and not succumbing to the pressure of always striving for more can lead to a more balanced and authentic existence.
The Importance of Helping Average People
Society tends to focus on helping individuals who are struggling or those who are already achieving exceptional success. However, the majority of people fall into the average category and often feel neglected. Many average individuals face unique challenges and limitations, as they are not plagued by extreme trauma or addiction, nor are they striving for extraordinary achievements. Recognizing the importance of providing guidance and support to average people is crucial. Seeking help from coaches or therapists can be beneficial, as they can offer assistance in navigating the specific struggles and self-doubts that average individuals may face. By increasing the focus on the needs and concerns of average people, society can better address the diverse range of experiences and promote overall well-being.
Today's video marks a new approach as we aim to extend support to a group we haven't focused on much within our community: the average person. Often, our advice tends to cater to specific challenges, but today, we're addressing those who may feel they're simply 'chilling in the parking lot of life.'
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