
The Neurodivergent Nurse
Other People's Opinions Are None of Your Business
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Quick takeaways
- Neurodivergent individuals should let go of the opinions of others to break the cycle of self-doubt and negative self-talk caused by the negativity bias.
- Other people's opinions do not define our self-worth; it is essential to prioritize our own thoughts, values, and feelings.
Deep dives
The Impact of Other People's Opinions
In this episode, the host discusses how other people's opinions can weigh us down, especially for neurodivergent individuals. The host shares personal experiences and insights from a conversation with Katie and Garrett from the Bar Is Ankle High podcast. The discussion highlights the tendency to worry about what others think and the need to let go of this burden. The host emphasizes that other people's opinions are often based on biases and shallow factors, not a true reflection of who we are as individuals. The negativity bias and external criticism can trigger self-doubt and internalization of negative beliefs, particularly for those with ADHD, imposter syndrome, or rejection sensitive dysphoria. Strategies for managing these reactions include self-compassion, separating facts from opinions, seeking positive feedback, reframing negative feedback as growth opportunities, and seeking professional help if needed.