Parenting teenagers untangled. 🏆 The audio hug for parents of teens and tweens. 147: Puberty, toxic friendships, 'Pick me' girls - top tips for parenting teenagers from teenagers
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Jun 18, 2025 Dive into the challenges of parenting teenagers as they discuss the tricky phases of puberty and body changes. The conversation highlights the importance of open dialogues about sensitive topics like wearing bras. Toxic friendships take center stage, with tips on recognizing unhealthy dynamics and valuing self-worth. The discussion also tackles the term 'pick me girls,' exploring its roots and implications on gender dynamics. This lively exchange spans insights on societal pressures, the quest for authenticity, and the transformative journey of teenage self-discovery.
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Approach to Discussing Puberty
- Give your child space to open up about puberty without pressuring them directly.
- Try group conversations to normalize body changes, making it less personal and intimidating.
Bra Wearing Should Be Voluntary
- Do not pressure daughters to wear their first bra if they are uncomfortable.
- Let them choose when they feel ready to wear one to build confidence in their own body.
Impact of Male Gaze on Girls' Comfort
- Girls' discomfort with their bodies is often influenced more by societal pressures than their own feelings.
- Fear of the male gaze can be a learned behavior rather than an inherent feeling of shame.
