The Viall Files

E1041 Ask Nick - My Best Friend's Son Is Evil

Dec 1, 2025
A caller grapples with the dilemma of keeping her best friend's troublesome son away from her own. The hosts discuss boundaries in friendships, the importance of concise communication, and strategies for navigating sensitive topics. Another caller questions if she's settling in her relationship, prompting insights on emotional safety versus excitement. Meanwhile, a third caller shares how her fiancé's support for his parents is straining their engagement, sparking conversations about boundaries and partnership dynamics. Tune in for practical advice and relatable dilemmas!
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ADVICE

Protect Your Child First

  • If your child's safety is at risk, you have the right to remove them from the situation immediately.
  • You don't need anyone's permission to protect your child; set and enforce boundaries first, then communicate.
INSIGHT

Defensiveness Is A Natural Parental Shield

  • Parents naturally defend their children, which makes corrective feedback feel like an attack.
  • Framing concerns gently and empathetically improves the chance the parent will listen and change behavior.
ADVICE

Use Calming Language To Collaborate

  • Use 'we' language and soft descriptions like 'things have happened' to lower defensiveness and keep the conversation constructive.
  • Focus on collaboration: offer help and ask how you can support improving the child's behavior.
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