The Psychology of your 20s 366. I moved to London
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Dec 21, 2025 Join Jemma as she shares her exciting journey of relocating to London and navigating life in a bustling city. She recounts her decision to move with her boyfriend and the emotional impact of saying goodbye to friends and family. From the chaos of apartment hunting to the challenges of adjusting to a new culture, Jemma offers relatable insights into the ups and downs of moving abroad. She emphasizes the importance of community, setting expectations for friendships, and the freedom to reassess her choices. Practical tips for fellow movers are shared, making it both a personal and informative experience!
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Fast-Tracked Relationship Decision
- Jemma met Tom in Bali and told him early she planned to move overseas, testing compatibility fast.
- They agreed to wait two years while he completed legal professional requirements before deciding to move together.
Early Culture Shock And Distance Grief
- Moving to London hit Jemma with unexpected cultural and practical shocks like shorter daylight and crowded public transport.
- She also faced emotional strain when an anti-Semitic attack happened back home while she was newly relocated.
Housing Hunt Hit Immediately
- Their planned sublet fell through causing urgent apartment hunting stress soon after arrival.
- London renting felt aggressive with quick offers, price gouging, and fast reference checks.