The Dr. John Delony Show

My Boyfriend Is Not Good in Bed (Should I Tell Him?)

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Oct 15, 2025
Rick, a caller with years of marriage experience, grapples with understanding his wife's reaction to a prayer request concerning her surgery. He delves into deeper marital issues and discusses the challenges of household expectations. John offers insights on fostering open conversations about hidden emotions and encourages them to plan their future together. They explore balancing family values with income aspirations, emphasizing communication and clarity about personal identities.
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ADVICE

Build A Weekly Check-In Habit

  • Create a regular, nonjudgmental habit to discuss calendars, sex, money, and plans weekly.
  • Tell your partner it's an invitation to connect, not an accusation, so both stay present during hard talks.
INSIGHT

Sex Problems Often Signal Deeper Gaps

  • Sexual mechanics are fixable, but poor communication around needs reveals a deeper relational problem.
  • If you can't say small honest things now, bigger life choices will widen the gap later.
INSIGHT

People-Pleasing Origins Shape Adult Needs

  • People-pleasing often starts in childhood when a child held adult emotional responsibility.
  • That pattern makes mind-reading feel like love and prevents asking for clear needs in adult relationships.
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