Mark Nepo on Connecting to What Matters

Apr 7, 2020

In this insightful conversation, Mark Nepo, a poet, philosopher, and cancer survivor, shares his wisdom on connecting to what truly matters in life. He discusses paths to meaningful living and the significance of presence, especially during chaotic times. The dual nature of humanity is explored through a parable of two wolves, emphasizing emotional balance and clarity. Mark highlights the importance of embracing the present and finding fulfillment in the ordinary, while also reflecting on the transformative power of connection and community.

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INSIGHT

Whole Wolf vs. Dark Wolf

Feed the "whole wolf" by cooperating, listening, and working with things.
Feeding the "dark wolf" happens when we try to bend things to our will.

INSIGHT

The Problem of Partial Seeing

Much of our suffering comes from seeing only part of reality.
We paint everything with our current trouble when we lose sight of the vastness.

ANECDOTE

Ocean Metaphor

The ocean's surface is choppy, representing our turbulent psychology.
Going deeper below the surface connects us to the vastness, right-sizing our troubles.

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Mark Nepo is a poet, philosopher and cancer survivor who has taught in the fields of poetry, health, and spirituality for 40 years. Mark is a New York Times #1 selling author who has published numerous books and audio projects. In this episode, Eric and Mark discuss his book, The Book of Soul: 52 Paths to Living What Matters. This episode is a tonic to the suffering that we are facing right now in the midst of a pandemic. This conversation offers some of the most liberating wisdom that, when connected to, releases us from the grip of fear so that we are living from a place of presence, peace, and connecting to what matters.

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In This Interview, Mark Nepo and I discuss Connecting to What Matters and…

His new book, The Book of Soul: 52 Paths to Living What Matters
The value in cooperating, listening and working with things (rather than trying to bend them to our will)
That “sin”, as literally translated, is the same as “opaque” or, “not seeing”
That when we lose sight of the vastness to which we belong, succumbing to our narrow condition, we paint everything with the color of our trouble
How the surface of the ocean is what’s choppy and as we go down below the surface, we connect with the depth that is less tumultuous
“Rightsizing” our perspective on troubles by putting them in a larger perspective of vastness and wholeness
How to move at the pace of what is real: synchronizing the moving pace of mind, heart, and body
That the power of reading out loud is like the difference between reading sheet music and hearing it in our heads vs. actually playing the music
That we meditate not to be great meditators, but to be clear vessels
How we’ve become “addicted to the noise of things falling apart”
That things are always simultaneously falling apart and coming together
We are challenged to honor what we’re going through while at the same time remembering that what we’re going through doesn’t define us
Asking “What is actually happening?” so we might identify right action
Waiting for the cloud of fear to pass so that you can decipher what is actually dangerous
How in the modern world we have catastrophized our relationship to the unknown
That the unknown can produce love and beauty just as it can produce difficulty and hardships
The truth that there is no “there”, there’s only “here”
That often, when you can’t leave a difficult situation, you realize that everything you need is right here
The menacing assumption that life is somewhere other than where we are
That out of fear, we make a god of survival. But without thriving, what’s the point?

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