#403 Sex 3x a Week Starts With This One Leadership Shift

In this episode of What I Love About Sex, I'm breaking down exactly how one of my private clients went from disconnected and frustrated to having deeply connected, fulfilling sex three times a week, with the same woman he was barely connecting with once a month. We didn’t change his wife—we shifted his strategy, communication, and leadership.

Here's how.

✅ Clarify the real goal. Most men aim for more sex, but miss the quality. We defined what "great sex" actually looked like for him—physically, emotionally, and energetically.

✅ Use masculine leadership to foster emotional safety. My client learned how to ask the right questions, speak from calm confidence, and approach his wife without pressure. This unlocked connection and trust that led to more frequency naturally.

✅ Reframe sex as a shared experience, not a transaction. The more he prioritized her pleasure and made her feel valued, the more often she wanted to connect with enthusiasm.

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