Mickey and Ortal Flaumenhaft: Diaspora Differences: Israelis Come to Teaneck [Israel & Diaspora 5/5]
Dec 10, 2024
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Mickey Flaumenhaft, Director of Development at American Friends of Migdal Ohr and reservist in Gaza, teams up with his wife Ortal, a teacher for Bnei Akiva UK, to discuss their Jewish journey across three countries. They share insights on what factors guide decisions to leave Israel and how Judaism infuses daily life in Israeli culture. The couple reflects on the American Jewish community's bond with Israel since recent events and examines the emotional complexities of maintaining Jewish identity while living abroad.
The Flaumenhafts discuss the emotional complexities of relocating from Israel and the impact it has on community connections after marriage.
Listeners learn how Judaism is deeply woven into daily Israeli life, offering lessons for American Jews seeking spiritual engagement.
The couple shares their personal experiences during the October 7th events, illustrating the profound sense of duty and solidarity within the Jewish community.
Deep dives
The Eden-Bate Project
The Eden-Bate project features three apartment buildings overlooking the Ella Valley, highlighting the growing interest in living in Israel. This project aims to enhance community living with amenities such as event spaces, children's play areas, and fitness facilities. A significant aspect of the project is the construction of a shul, which will foster spiritual growth and unity among residents. The excitement for the project reflects a broader trend of individuals considering their lives and connections to Israel.
Exploring Community Choices
The emotional challenges of choosing a community after marriage are discussed, particularly for those who may miss out on typical experiences of newlyweds. The speaker illustrates their unconventional choice of purchasing a home while still engaged, and the potential pitfalls of such an early decision. This experience serves as a reminder of the importance of community connections and support structures for newly married couples. The narrative emphasizes the significance of finding the right environment that nurtures spiritual and social bonds.
Appreciating Blessings in Life
The conversation turns to a personal reflection on the miracles in life, urging listeners to acknowledge moments of happiness as they arise. The speaker recalls the joy of living among supportive and close-knit neighbors, particularly appreciating the Flamenhof family during difficult times. Experiences such as children playing together illustrate a community spirit that fosters connection and gratitude. There is a strong emphasis on the need to recognize and appreciate the good, even amid challenges.
Israeli Diaspora Relations
The discussion expands to encompass the complexities of Israeli diaspora relations, particularly the perception and integration of Israeli culture within American communities. The couple shares their experiences of cultural differences and the efforts to balance their Israeli identity while living abroad. Ortal describes her transformation in understanding the diaspora and how her experiences deepened her appreciation for communities outside Israel. This conversation sheds light on the broader narrative of interactions between Israelis and American Jews.
Impact of October 7th
The couple recounts their personal experiences during the events of October 7th and the profound emotional journey it initiated for them. Mickey chose to remain in Israel to support his unit during the conflict, cementing a strong sense of duty and communal responsibility. This decision reflects the challenges faced by families of servicemen and the importance of solidarity within the Jewish community. They emphasize how the tragedy fostered connections and deeper conversations around identity within their diaspora community.
This episode is sponsored by Eden Beit Shemesh. Contact Rina Weinberg at info@edenbeitshemesh.com for more details.
In this episode of the 18Forty Podcast, we talk to Mickey and Ortal Flaumenhaft—David Bashevkin’s Israeli neighbors in Teaneck—about their experiences living Jewishly in three different countries.
When the Flaumenhafts were in Israel for their son’s bar mitzvah on October 7, Mickey made the decision to join his unit in Gaza. In this episode we discuss:
What does a couple consider when making the decision to leave Israel?
What can Americans learn from the way Judaism permeates Israeli culture?
How has the American Jewish community’s connection to Israel deepened since October 7?
Tune in to hear a conversation about what it means to hold the entirety of the Jewish People in our hearts, no matter where we might be.
Interview begins at 7:45. Mickey Flaumenhaft is the Director of Development at American Friends of Migdal Ohr, a welfare organization for Israel’s orphaned and at-risk youth. Mickey served reservist duty in Gaza this past year. Ortal Flaumenhaft is a first-grade teacher for Hebrew and Judaic studies at Yeshivat He'Atid in Teaneck. References: