E20: London Alternative Market, Punishments, Consent, and ChatGPT
Jan 22, 2023
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Exploring the London Alternative Market, consent complexities in BDSM, the grey area of punishments, and ChatGPT's knowledge of BDSM are discussed in this intriguing podcast episode.
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Quick takeaways
Consent in BDSM can be a grey area due to implicit vs explicit consent discussions.
Communication and education are crucial in BDSM to ensure safety and responsible engagement.
Deep dives
Commands and Gradual Progression in BDSM
Commands such as kneeling down, standing up, stripping, and crawling to the dominant are suggested for power exchange relationships, ensuring these commands are discussed and agreed upon beforehand. Distinct commands like addressing the dominant with a chosen title, submitting completely, and following every command are included. Remote directives like writing an apology letter and sending a specific outfit photo are recommended for added engagement.
Consent, Communication, and Safety in BDSM
Highlighted aspects include the importance of communication, ensuring open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and limits before engaging in activities. Emphasis is placed on safety measures and practiced techniques, with reminders about having a safe word to stop activities if necessary. Mandating consensual participation in all BDSM activities to establish a clear understanding and agreement prior to engagement.
Educating Oneself About BDSM
Encouragement for individuals to educate themselves on BDSM, covering various activities, safety precautions, and techniques before initiating any practices. Stressing the significance of learning about different types of activities and safety measures to ensure informed participation and responsible engagement.
Start Slowly and Progress Gradually in BDSM
The advice advocates starting slowly and gradually increasing the intensity of BDSM activities instead of immediately diving into advanced practices. The approach focuses on easing into activities, allowing for a gradual build-up of intensity, and avoiding overwhelming experiences at the inception of BDSM exploration.
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why consent is sometimes a grey area, especially when it comes to implicit vs explicit consent; why punishments aren't always what they seem; and then ask ChatGPT what it knows about BDSM (quite a lot!).
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