
The Daily Stoic Be Strict with Yourself, Tolerant with Others | Ask Daily Stoic
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Jan 22, 2026 Explore the Stoic principle of being strict with oneself while remaining tolerant toward others. Discover how philosophy serves as a practical guide for life choices, emphasizing classical virtues like courage and wisdom. Dive into the teachings of contemporary figures like General Mattis, who exemplify Stoic restraint and honor. Learn how to seek out inspiring leaders from history when modern examples fail to meet expectations, reinforcing that wisdom is a habit cultivated through experience and thoughtful choices.
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Focus On What You Can Control
- Stoicism is a personal philosophy for directing your behavior, not for judging or enforcing others.
- Be tolerant with others and strict with yourself by focusing on what you can control.
Correct Your Own Behavior First
- When someone acts badly, let them — it's outside your control.
- When you act badly, catch it, stop it, and work to prevent it in the future.
A Day Balancing Family And Work
- Ryan describes a day juggling family, grocery shopping, and flying for a talk in Florida.
- He highlights everyday responsibilities alongside public work to show practical stoic living.





