EPISODE 51
Many of us don't realise how much of a hold shame - specifically toxic shame - has over us. When shame is 'toxic', we don't just feel shame over what we do but we experience deep shame over WHO WE ARE.
Toxic shame at the core of our identity re-tells the lie that our worth depends on never making a mistake or never disappointing others.
In this episode I share some of my own experiences of shame and how I began to be freed from the hold that it had over me.
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RESOURCES
Episode 4 & Episode 5 - Living from the Inside Out
Episode 30 - Counselling or Spiritual Direction (or both)?
A Leader's Spirituality
CHAPTER MARKERS
(00:00:16) - Introduction
(00:02:21) - What Shame Really Is
(00:08:08) - An Example of the Effect of Shame
(00:19:23) - My Redemption Moment
(00:24:19) - Shame as an Ally
(00:27:31) - Living from the Inside Out
(00:31:17) - PRAXIS: Listen. Ponder. Act
(00:35:10) - Conclusion
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TRANSCRIPT
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REFLECTION PROMPT
Listen.
- As you listened to this episode, what really struck you?
Ponder.
- How does shame show up in your life?
Act.
- Think of one concrete act you can take towards building a more secure relationship with your inner self.
- If you have already been learning more about healing journey for a while, without taking action, I invite you to take that step, to look for someone trained in this area to guide and companion you on this journey.
For full details of this reflection prompt, please see transcript.
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