surviving cuffing season single ft isabella mayer - podmas #10
Dec 19, 2023
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Isabella Mayer, a friend of the host, discusses being single in your twenties during the holiday season and beyond. They talk about not feeling behind in dating, appreciating being single, stopping the need for male validation, learning about love from platonic relationships, and solo date ideas.
Engaging in solo activities can bring joy and fulfillment.
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and try dating.
Deep dives
Finding fulfillment in solo activities
Engaging in solo activities such as painting candles, being crafty, or starting a new hobby can bring you joy and fulfillment. You can also take solo day trips, visit vintage shops, explore cafes, or go for a walk in the park. Enjoy your own company and make the most of your free time.
Overcoming the fear of dating and judgment
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and try dating. Start by chatting with people on dating apps and going on low-pressure dates. Remember that you are in control of your own dating journey. Don't worry about judgment from others. Focus on finding someone who accepts you for who you are and aligns with your values and interests.
Embracing solo moments and self-exploration
Savor solo moments by creating healthy routines, such as morning and nighttime rituals that make you feel good. Engage in self-care activities like facials, massages, or doing your own nails. Don't hesitate to embark on solo day trips, treat yourself to a coffee or a nice meal, explore bookshops, or go for walks. Use these moments for self-reflection, growth, and embracing your independence.
this episode we're joined by my friend isabella to talk all about being single in your twenties during the holiday season.. but also beyond! we chat about:
how to not feel 'behind' about your dating experience
learning to appreciate being single
how to stop seeking male validation
learning about romantic love from platonic love
solo date ideas
safe to say it's a good one!!! š you can follow isabella here or listen to her podcast here.
p.s. apologies about the audio quality, that's a little up & down in this episode but hope the video component makes up for it hehe <3
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